Hear him coach

Pick your situation. Hear his answer.

Four situations put to the app. What it said back, word for word, in Daniel's voice. Nothing edited.

Alex says

“I'm at a coffee shop. There's a girl reading by the window and I think she's really cute, but I'm nervous and I keep telling myself she doesn't want to be bothered.”

Coach answers

1:03Daniel's voice

Read the answer

Great question, Alex. Here's my take on it. So first, notice the outer context... she's by the window reading, her attention is on her book, that is key data you can use to start the interaction. Then bring your attention inside your body and notice the emotions that come up. What's in your chest, what's in your belly? Just let it be there and allow it to flow. And that thought that she doesn't want to be bothered, that's just a story your mind is giving you to hold you back. You're rejecting yourself before you even give her a chance to reject you. So ask yourself, do I truly want to approach her? If it's a yes, count down from three, two, one, and go. Walk over and say, hey, I know you're in the middle of reading, but I couldn't help myself, I found you really attractive and I wanted to come say hi. What's your name?

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Who it's for

Which one are you?

Three guys the app was built for. Most men are one of them on a given night.

The Overthinker

You see her. Your head writes the rejection before she says a word. You walk away and replay it all night.

Before you walk over, he names that story out loud and tells you what to say. Then you go.
The Student

You have watched every video. You can explain the theory. You have not approached anyone this month.

He gives you one instruction for the woman in front of you, right now, in about a minute. No more studying.
The Improviser

You do walk over. Sometimes it goes well, sometimes it does not, and you never know why.

He reviews what you actually said, scores it, and gives you the one thing to fix next time.

How it works

Before, during, after

He is with you for all three.

Prepare

Tell him what is happening and what is holding you back. He tells you what to do, out loud, in his own voice, in about a minute.

Approach

Tap Start, put the phone away, and go. It listens quietly and keeps only the words, never the audio. Tap Stop when it is over. Recording laws differ by place, so check yours first (see the FAQ).

Review

His feedback and a scorecard: four phases, done or missed, and three skills rated 1 to 10. Disagree? Push back and he answers. Every approach is saved.

See it work

Straight from the app

The Prepare tab: a student writes that he is nervous at a coffee shop, and the coach replies with what to say and tells him to go. — **Prepare.** Say what is happening and what is holding you back. He tells you exactly what to do.

The Approach tab after a scorecard: the student disagrees with the review, and the coach answers back in the Talk it through thread. — **Review.** After the scorecard, talk it through. Push back, and he answers.

Where it fits

Daniel Jacob

ColdApproach.AI is built on how Daniel Jacob actually coaches: his method, his words, and his voice.

Founder and lead coach of Everlasting Confidence
Coaching men since 2018
His voice, recreated by AI with his permission, so every answer sounds like him
His 1-on-1 program is The Accelerator

Visit everlastingconfidence.com (opens in a new tab) · His YouTube channel (opens in a new tab)

Watch on YouTube (opens in a new tab) · Daniel's documentary, about 7 minutes (opens in a new tab)

Pricing

Try it free for 3 days

Both plans start with 3 free days: 5 questions and 1 approach review to try it. Cancel at least 24 hours before the 3 days end and you pay nothing. Otherwise your plan starts and renews automatically until you cancel.

Monthly

$97 a month

Billed monthly after 3 free days

100 questions to the coach each month
50 approach reviews each month
His voice, or text if you prefer
Every approach saved with its scorecard

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Best value

Annual

$70.75 a month

$849 billed yearly after 3 free days. That is 27% off monthly.

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Save $315 a year
Billed once a year instead of monthly

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Your questions and reviews reset on the 1st of each month. Subscriptions are bought and managed in the App Store or Google Play, and renew there until you cancel at least 24 hours before the period ends.

FAQ

Questions, answered

Who is it for?

Men 18 and over who want to meet women in real life, in person, and get better at it. It is not for anyone under 18, and it is not therapy.

How is this different from asking ChatGPT?

A general chatbot gives general advice. ColdApproach.AI is built around Daniel Jacob's coaching: how he answers, the words he uses, and the framework he scores approaches with. It answers in his voice, and it can listen to your approach and review what actually happened, which a chat window cannot.

What happens to my audio?

Your phone turns your voice into text using Apple or Google speech recognition, on the device when your phone supports it. Otherwise Apple or Google may process the audio to return the text, under their own privacy policies. Only the text reaches us and the AI. We never receive or store audio, and the app never saves a recording.

Does it record the other person?

It does not save audio of anyone. During an approach your phone listens and turns what is said, including the other person's words, into text (on the device when your phone supports it). That transcript is kept in your account so the coach can review it and you can read it later. The other person is never profiled and the app never asks who they are. It only coaches you. Laws about recording or transcribing a conversation differ from place to place, and some require everyone's consent. You are responsible for following your local laws, and you must not use the approach feature where consent rules forbid it.

Is this a real person?

No. It is the AI version of Daniel Jacob. The reply is written by an AI model (Anthropic Claude) and spoken with a cloned version of his voice (ElevenLabs), made with his consent. If you want Daniel himself, see Want Daniel himself? below.

What if I freeze?

That is what the Prepare step is for. Before you walk over, tell your coach what is happening and what is holding you back, and he tells you what to do. If an approach does not go the way you hoped, stop it and he reviews it with you. Every approach stays on the Approach tab with a review, a score, and his feedback, and you can talk it through with him.

What do I get each month?

100 questions to the coach and 50 approach reviews, on both the monthly and the annual plan. The allowance resets on the 1st of each month, and unused ones do not roll over. During the 3 free days you get 5 questions and 1 approach review to try it.

Can I cancel?

Yes. Cancel at least 24 hours before the 3 free days end and you will not be charged. Subscriptions are bought and managed through the App Store or Google Play, so you cancel there. See the support page for the exact steps.

Is it on iPhone and Android?

Both are coming soon: iPhone first, then Android. Join the waitlist below and we email you on launch day.

Is this therapy?

No. ColdApproach.AI is dating coaching, not therapy or medical advice. It is educational. If you are struggling with your mental health, please talk to a licensed professional.

The Accelerator

Want Daniel himself?

The app gets you moving. For 1-on-1 coaching with Daniel Jacob, apply to his program.

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iPhone first, then Android. We email you once, the day it launches.

She is right there.
So is your coach.

Pick your situation. Hear his answer.

Which one are you?

The Overthinker

The Student

The Improviser