IBefore
Step 1: Prepare
You see her. You want to approach her, but you reject yourself before you say a single word.
Tell Daniel what is happening and what is holding you back. He tells you what to do, out loud, in his own voice, in about a minute.
By Daniel Jacob, founder of Everlasting Confidence
Approach and attract women effortlessly with your AI dating coach.
Daniel Jacob prepares you before the approach, listens to your interaction, and gives you honest feedback right after.
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3 days free, then $97 a month or $849 a year. Cancel anytime.
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- Built by Daniel Jacob, trained on his method, spoken in an AI version of his voice
- For iPhone and Android
How it works
Before, during, after
One app on your phone, three moments. He preps you before, listens during, and reviews you after.
IIDuring
Step 2: Approach
You’ve watched hundreds of YouTube videos, but you haven’t approached a single woman this month.
Tap Start, put the phone away, and go. Daniel listens quietly and keeps only the words, never the audio. Tap Stop when it is over. Recording laws differ by place, so check yours first.
IIIAfter
Step 3: Review
Sometimes your interactions go well, sometimes they don’t, and you never know why.
Daniel gives you feedback on your interaction. He grades you on its four phases and on three core attraction skills, rated 1 to 10. If you disagree, push back and he answers. All of your approaches are saved.
Hear Daniel Jacob coach
Pick your situation.Hear his answer.
This is step 1, Prepare. We asked the app about four real situations as a test user named Alex. These are its answers, word for word, spoken by the AI version of Daniel. Nothing edited.
Alex asks
“I'm at a coffee shop. There's a girl reading by the window and I think she's really cute, but I'm nervous and I keep telling myself she doesn't want to be bothered.”
The AI version of Daniel answers
Arrow keys move 5 seconds. Home and End jump to the start or the end. Enter plays or pauses.
Read the answer
Great question, Alex. Here's my take on it. So first, notice the outer context... she's by the window reading, her attention is on her book, that is key data you can use to start the interaction. Then bring your attention inside your body and notice the emotions that come up. What's in your chest, what's in your belly? Just let it be there and allow it to flow. And that thought that she doesn't want to be bothered, that's just a story your mind is giving you to hold you back. You're rejecting yourself before you even give her a chance to reject you. So ask yourself, do I truly want to approach her? If it's a yes, count down from three, two, one, and go. Walk over and say, hey, I know you're in the middle of reading, but I couldn't help myself, I found you really attractive and I wanted to come say hi. What's your name?
See a real review
Then he walked over.Here is his review.
This is step 3, Review. Same coffee shop, same girl as above: we role-played the approach as Alex and let the app review it. This is its review, word for word: the feedback in the AI version of Daniel’s voice, then the scorecard. Nothing edited.
Alex, after the approach
“Coffee shop this morning. She was reading by the window. I got her number but I felt nervous the whole time.”
The AI version of Daniel reviews it
Read the review
Okay, Alex. So let’s break down this interaction.
In terms of what went well, you were upfront from the very start. You said, "I just thought you looked really cute, so I wanted to come say hi," so she knew exactly why you were there, man to woman, and you did not hide behind the book or the coffee. And then you teased her. "Is it good, or are you just being nice to your friend?" And then, "You’re one of those people who has to finish every book," which is a solid cold read about the type of girl she is, and she played right along with it, she said, "Yes, it’s a problem." That is the man to woman dynamic working. You also shared a bit about yourself, that you quit books all the time, and she opened up about her night shift. And then you closed firmly. You told her you want to take her out for a proper coffee and you asked for the number, no softening around it. That is all good work.
In terms of what needs work... number one is the apologizing. You opened with "sorry, I know you’re in the middle of reading," and later you said, "Okay, then I won’t keep you too long. Sorry, I’m a little nervous right now." That kind of time-taking, apologetic language tells her you are not sure you belong there, and it cuts the interaction short right when she was investing. She was engaged, she was giving you things to play with, and instead of going deeper with her you started managing her exit.
And beneath that is just nerves in your body, which you felt the whole time. So the number one thing for you is to slow down, breathe, pace yourself, stay in the tension and keep going instead of excusing yourself out of it.
So overall, this was a very solid interaction. It’s a close call, but she was in your frame.
The four phases
- IntroIntro: 6 out of 10
- IntentionIntention: 6 out of 10
- ConnectionConnection: 5 out of 10
- CloseClose: 7 out of 10
The three pillars
- AwarenessAwareness: 6 out of 10
- CourageCourage: 6 out of 10
- DetachmentDetachment: 5 out of 10
Frame control
It’s a close call, but she was in your frame.
- Keep doing
- Keep being upfront from the first line about why you came over, and keep making little cold reads like "You’re one of those people who has to finish every book", because that is where she leaned in.
- Fix
- Cut the apologetic, time-taking language, "sorry, I know you’re in the middle of reading" and "I won’t keep you too long", because all of that type of language causes the girl to see you as not attractive.
- Next time
- Open without the sorry, and when you feel the nerves, drop into your body, slow down and pace yourself instead of apologizing for taking her time, then lead it to an actual day to meet.
Meet the coach
Daniel Jacob
Built by Daniel Jacob, trained on his method, spoken in an AI version of his voice.
Cold Approach AI is built on how Daniel Jacob actually coaches: his method, his words, and his voice. He is the founder and head coach of Everlasting Confidence, and has coached men since 2018.
Pricing
Try it freefor 3 days.
Both plans start with 3 free days: 5 questions and 1 approach review. Cancel at least 24 hours before they end and you pay nothing.
Coming soon to the App Store and Google Play.
Monthly
$97a month
Billed monthly after 3 free days
- 100 questions to the coach each month
- 50 approach reviews each month
- His voice, or text if you prefer
- Every approach saved with its scorecard
Annual · Best value
$70.75a month
$849 billed yearly after 3 free days. That is 27% off monthly.
- Same 100 questions and 50 reviews every month
- His voice, or text if you prefer
- Every approach saved with its scorecard
- Save $315 a year
Download the app, start your 3 free days, and pick your plan inside the app. You pay through the App Store or Google Play, so it takes one tap with your Apple ID or Google account.
Plans renew automatically until you cancel. Questions and reviews reset on the 1st of each month. You buy and manage your plan in the App Store or Google Play, and cancel there at least 24 hours before the period ends.
FAQ
Questions,answered.
Still stuck? Email support@coldapproach.ai or see the support page.
Is this really Daniel?
No. It is the AI version of Daniel Jacob. The reply is written by an AI model (Anthropic Claude) and spoken with an AI version of his voice (ElevenLabs), made with his consent.
Who is it for?
Men 18 and over who want to meet women in real life, in person, and get better at it. It is not for anyone under 18.
How is this different from asking ChatGPT?
A general chatbot gives general advice. Cold Approach AI is built around Daniel Jacob's coaching: how he answers, the words he uses, and the framework he scores approaches with. It answers in his voice, and it can listen to your approach and review what actually happened, which a chat window cannot.
What happens to my audio?
Your phone turns your voice into text using Apple or Google speech recognition, on the device when your phone supports it. Otherwise Apple or Google may process the audio to return the text, under their own privacy policies. Only the text, plus a few numbers about how you sounded (like pace and pauses), reaches us and the AI. We never receive your audio, and the app never saves a recording.
Does it record the other person?
No audio of anyone is saved. During an approach your phone turns what both of you say into text, on the device when it can. That text stays in your account so the coach can review it. The app never asks who she is and never builds a profile of her. Some places require everyone's consent to record or transcribe a conversation. Follow your local law, do not use the approach feature where it is not allowed, and stop if anyone asks you to.
What if I freeze?
Most guys do at first. Before you walk over, open Prepare, tell him what is stopping you, and he tells you what to do next. If you freeze anyway, tell him what happened and he gets you ready to go again. To hear how he handles it, pick On the street above.
What do I get each month?
100 questions to the coach and 50 approach reviews, on both the monthly and the annual plan. The allowance resets on the 1st of each month, and unused ones do not roll over. During the 3 free days you get 5 questions and 1 approach review to try it.
Can I cancel?
Yes. Cancel at least 24 hours before the 3 free days end and you will not be charged. Subscriptions are bought and managed through the App Store or Google Play, so you cancel there. See the support page for the exact steps.
Is it on iPhone and Android?
Both are coming soon. The App Store and Google Play buttons on this page take you there on launch day.
Is this therapy?
No. Cold Approach AI is dating coaching, not therapy or medical advice. It is educational. If you are struggling with your mental health, please talk to a licensed professional.
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